Ask, Believe & Receive

by Kenya Johnson, M.P.G.C.

“Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.” Mark 11:24 KJV

“For this reason I am telling you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe (trust and be confident) that it is granted to you, and you will [get it].” Mark 11:24 Amplified Version

Have you ever wondered why some people are so successful and other are not?  Have you ever wanted to know how to be successful in everything you put your hands to do?  Well, today you are going to get a glimpse into the world of success at its best.  As some of you may know, I love to pull my inspiration from the Bible and work on putting all of its teachings and principles in use in my life.  The above scripture in Mark 11:24 is basis for my article today – Ask, Believe & Receive.  You don’t have to be a Christian to understand this principle and it can be applied in your life as simply asking, believing and receiving.
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Motivation Strategies

by Randin Brons, Ph.D., C.M.H., M.S.L.C.

Success and achievement requires work, patience and motivation. Motivation can be viewed by some as a temporary solution to a permanent problem. What that means is, there is always something to do when it comes to success.

We need to succeed at better grades. We need to succeed at becoming more profitable in business. We need to succeed in our family life – being a better parent or spouse. We need to succeed financially – be it personally or business. We need to succeed physically. Maybe we need to drop a few pounds or add some muscle mass.

The bottom line is, we all need motivation on some level whether it’s for a short time or for an ongoing long time frame. Below are twelve ways that you can become more motivated for your success trail.

Some may be for you. Some may not. But with these you are sure to find at least one that works with your personality.

Reading –
Reading can be inspirational as well as motivational. It’s a form of learning, research, escape, entertainment and even training. Reading up on your desired goals can be motivational. For example, if you are wanting to get in shape, you may subscribe to a well known fitness magazine. The articles and pictures alone could be motivation to keep you on the treadmill or bench press.

Listening –
Listening is a lot like reading. But instead of being tied to a book, you can listen to motivational recordings just about anywhere. The most common place is the car. If you are working in an office setting away from your home, you may have a lengthy route to work. That’s a perfect time for motivational listening. If you have the luxury of listening while at home or in the office, a great way to further your motivation is to actually take notes of important points that you hear from your recordings.

Affirmation -
Affirmations are good for those of us who need repetition. Have you heard the saying, “Tell someone something long enough and they will eventually believe it.” Well an affirmation is that kind of motivational resource. Someone usually finds a saying that really charges them – something they really believe in – and they will write it down and read it daily, sometimes several times daily. This eventually will get in that person’s head and they will own it as a fact or part of who they are. The great thing about affirmations are, they can really take good information, motivational and inspiring information, and flood out the negativity that’s in your head. Out with the old (bad) and in with the new (good).

Visualization -
Here’s a powerful way to stay motivated. If you can see your outcome, a lot of times it will motivate you to see it through to the end. The only downside is it takes a little practice. But it is well worth the effort. Your results will show you how worth it.

Negativity -
Negativity is a harsh motivator. What I mean is, negativity is bad. But if you’re the kind of person that likes to take the negativity from people and feed it back to them by your positive results, then you have a great motivational technique by tuning into the comments of others who ‘don’t think it’s possible’.  With this technique, you have to be careful that the negativity doesn’t rub off on your and you start to believe it.

Remembering why you’re doing what you’re doing is a great way to stay motivated. If you’re building wealth to give your family things they never dreamed possible. Just remembering that fact can motivate your drive harder than when you first thought about it. As time goes on, you will be more driven the more you remember your reasons.

Huge amounts of motivation are already in you. You just have to know how to tap into it. And if these half dozen motivational strategies are a start. If you don’t see one you connect, there are more coming!

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About the Author: Dr. Brons is the Chief Learning Officer of Express Coaching™ and a working coach. Randin’s work goes far beyond the search for your life purpose – the difference is in learning to live by your own design. Visit his website at www.ajourneytojoy.com.

Success Perspective

by Dr. Randin Brons, Ph.D., C.M.H., M.S.L.C.

I’ve been asked a lot about success and achievement lately. Over time, I’ve come to believe that our success is not something that “just happens”. Our success or lack of success is a direct result of the decisions we make.

If we want to become wealthy, we must make wealthy decisions. If we want to become part of a healthy relationship, we must make healthy relationship decisions. If we want to become physically fit, we must make physically fit decisions. If we want to become more spiritual, we must make spiritual decisions.

This may seem overly simplified but this is where it starts. It starts with motivation. And motivation generates decision. The problem enters when we allow our emotions to interfere with our logical decision process.

Example: If you want to lose weight, your logical decisions should be to eat less and exercise more. Simple. Right? It’s simple until you allow your emotions to help make your weight loss decisions.

When your emotions enter the picture, you’ll soon notice that you’ve “decided” that “one piece of pie won’t hurt this one time.” After all you love pie. And then 2 pieces of pie and a bowl of ice cream later, you “decide” that you’ve already blown your eating habits to lose weight so what’s the point anymore.

You must keep your emotional decisions and logical decisions in check.

Example 2: If you’re trying to build wealth, you must make logical wealth building decisions. Simple again, right? Well let’s see… You’ve been making good decisions and sticking to your budget that is designed to definitely lead you down the road of wealth. But you’ve been renting this apartment and you know one day you want to buy a house. So instead of waiting, you go on ahead and start looking. You see a house you like and grow extremely attached to it. It’s got everything you’ve ever thought you might want in your dream home.

So you get pre-approved and qualify for more than you ever thought you could (of course). Even though this house is more than you were going to spend, you go ahead and make the offer, then the counter offer. You end up purchasing your dream home. But at what cost? You are now back to where you started – stretching to make ends meet and living paycheck to paycheck. Your emotions bled over into your logical decision making process. Far fetched? I’m not so sure.

This is a crucial point to success. We must keep our emotional and logical processes of decision making separate if we want to succeed in our own predetermined endeavors. Don’t get me wrong. Emotions have their place and are a great source of successful living. But when we need to make logical, life-changing decisions, it may be a good idea to keep emotions and logic separate.

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? About the Author: Randin Brons, Ph.D., C.M.H., M.S.L.C., is the current Chief Learning Officer of Express Coaching™ and a working life coach. Randin specializes in working with individuals to regain a sense of control over their lives … dreams and future. The power of Randin’s work goes far beyond the search for your life purpose – the difference is in learning how to live by your own design. You can contact the author through our corporate email: rhema-int@shaw.ca. Visit his website www.ajourneytojoy.com to find out more about his unique gift and work.

Gain Control over Your Life

Human life is a precious blessing and each day should be lived king size. I am asked quite often about the secret of my boundless joy and peace. All I say is that, I am high on life. I drink life to the lees because my life is completely in my control. We can definitely exercise control over the quality of our life by making the right choices.

To be in total control of your life, you need to begin with the development of a complete understanding of yourself. Each of us is unique in our own right with very diverse thought processes, and a mind of our own. Never try to ape someone else because you are the best in simply being yourself. Read more

Live Life to the Fullest!

It’s so good to have the Express Coaching blog back online once again. As we have worked with those who have so freely given of their time to make our site a priority and to get us back up and running again, all within a few shot weeks – we appreciate you more than you’ll ever know.

So here we are, starting our blog once again from scratch. It’s an opportunity to begin over – to start fresh – to share some new thoughts and ideas and to remain positive in our work.

As we move into the holiday season and the coming of 2009 – I would like to make this short and sweet. I would like to ask you this question. Where are you living?! Strange question, right? But think deeply. I will make it easier for you. Are you living in the past, present, or future?

The majority of people are living in the past or the future and leave the only moment that they have which is NOW.

We live by our thoughts in a world that is not there. We either go back to the past to feel the sorrows and pleasures of it, or we go to the future to feel the worries and the joys of it.

But the fact is, you only live in the moment. And to live life to the fullest you must live in the moment. It is all what you have and you owe it to yourself to make it the best it can be.

Kahlil Gibran has a fantastic insight on this fact. He said…

We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them. – Kahlil Gibran, 1883-1931, Lebanese Poet and Novelist

We choose our joys and sorrows in our minds long before we see it in reality. And we might even don’t see it at all!

Live in the moment. The past has passed. The future is not there yet, so why you worry about it. And the present is a present. Make the most out of it and live your life moment by moment.

Don’t rush into the future or live in the cage of the past.

Fill your days with pleasure and live everyday as if it is your last day on earth.

You never know what would happen next! Life is short and you shouldn’t waste it by living in parts of time that no longer exist.

This is worth thinking about!

for now,
Randin

Goal Setting … Know what you want!

So you know what you want. You have a clear image of having it, experiencing it, doing it. You truly believe it can happen. You know you deserve to have it.

But before you act to achieve your goal – particularly a major, life-changing one – you may want to ask these questions first. Read more